Okay, after going crazy and exporting the keymap and making several different vesions that worked, I found the solution on DuckDuckGo.
It’s not anywhere in the forum and if anybody else is a Vim fan this will help them and… It’s so easy because Haiku rocks!
You open Keyboard Prefs under Preferences and drag the escape key to the Caps Lock key. You can save a custom keymap under File.
Yep… Learned a lot about keymaps in the mean time! lol
Thanks Haiku-OS developers and Haiku just for being amazing!